Wednesday, 23 December 2009

Happy Holidays!!!!

Dear Friends,

On December 26th, it will be 5 years since the devastating Tsunami changed our lives. We started 2009 in Sri Lanka and we had every intention of being back there now. But as many of you know, fate took a hand and Don is now recovering from the surgery he had in late September. He is improving really well and we hope to join our friends in Sri Lanka early in the New Year.

We did visit in the summer and with your help and generosity we:






  • arranged the continued supply of daily meals for all the primary and nursery school children in the village
  • distributed the contents of 15 boxes and 2 suitcases of donations to children at the school, people attending the clinic and the villagers
  • bought new shoes for all the children
  • arranged to ay for the continued education of seriously deprived children
  • supplied a new uniform for every child at the school
  • provided cricket bats, balls and badminton equipment for the children to use
  • made arrangements for a prize of a bicycle for the child who achieves the highest attendanceat school
  • took over 80 orpahned girls out for a day at the beach; their only trip outside since our last visit in December 2008
  • provided English lessons to the pupis at the village school
  • ordered musical instruments so that the children could learn music
  • arranged weekly music lessons at the orphanage
  • provided funds to support th Medical Clinic so that they can employ a doctor and buy drugs
  • handed over letters to some of the orphans from pen-pals in the UK
  • provided funding for the children unable to afford the fare for a school trip
  • made arrangements for a girl to receive extra tuition and be looked after whilst her recently-widowed father works
  • hosted a sports and games day.

You can see lots of photos and some video clips on the website.




Wherever you are and whomever you are with, have a wonderful time




Della & Don






Thursday, 26 November 2009

Saul's Photo Project


Back in the summer (remember that?) Saul handed out some disposable cameras to four of the kids in the village school. He asked them to take photos of things important in their lives - where they lived, their families and friends. They brought the cameras back and when the photos were developed, talked through the pictures with him. Takes a look at the amazing results at this website and find out more about their moving stories and hopes for the future.

T-rrific!


Well, the T-party was an incredible success and well attended. It has raised over £350 which Macmillan Publishers will match! And that's in addition to the £400 raised at a similar event earlier in the year so thanks to everyone for their generosity and support.

It's nice to know that as we approach the 5th anniversary of the Tsunami, people still care and with this money, FODAD's work will be able to continue to offer help well into 2010.

Tuesday, 24 November 2009

Chari-T Party

FODAD was chosen as Charity of the Year at Nature Publishing Group. On Thursday 26 November they are hosting a charity tea party in their building where senior managers will be serving tea and coffee. There will also be a huge amount of cakes available cooked by at least 28 members of staff from all departments. Della will also be doing a short presentation on what FODAD has achieved and how donations have kept that work going and the latest 5th Anniversary film will be played.

Thanks to all involved especially Michelle and Karly for organising the event.

Monday, 2 November 2009

Nichola Did It !!!!!

Great news from Nichola who completed Sunday's New York marathon in 4 hrs 43 mins. She said it was a difficult course in places but the atmosphere was out of this world and best of all, so far she's raised over £2,300 for FODAD.

We're really chuffed for her and thank her so much for all her efforts.

If you'd like to reward her, there's still time to contribute via her JustGiving page.

Tks again Nichola. x

Saturday, 17 October 2009

5 Things to do This Weekend

1. Get Fit: Sponsor Nichola for the NYC Marathon. She’s aiming to raise enough money to feed the school chikdren for a whole year and has climbed steadily to reach 42% of her target of £3000 before the event takes place on 1st November.

2. Go Green: If you’ve got any inkjet cartridges lying around or old mobile phones, register with Each One Counts . They’ll send a bag and all you need to do is send the item back to them in the FREEPOST envelope. FODAD gets the value of your item and you get entered into a draw where you could win a bike.

3. Watch “Sri Lanka’s Got Talent”: Check out the latest music video on Facebook: this is the first public performance of the St Mary’s School Band. WARNING: turn down the volume if you are of a nervous disposition!

4. Christmas Shopping: Struggling to think of what to buy for those who have everything? How about a personalised mug, calendar or T-shirt personalised for you? They’re very cheap and unique. Send an email to mail@friendsofdellaanddon.com to find out more.

5. Relax and watch a video: It’s nearly 5 years since the Della and Don’s Tsunami experience in Sri Lanka and the beginning of the enduring journey to make a difference. A classic tale of despair, triumph over adversity with a touch of the feel good factor thrown in (..and it’s just over 3 mins long)

6. OK, so I said only 5, but as you’re online anyway and have got this far, click on this link and make a donation. Just a couple of clicks will make a huge difference and you’ll enjoy your weekend even more!

Thank you

Sunday, 4 October 2009

Netting a profit?


One of the things FODAD did over the summer was provide funds to the village fishermen to buy and operate seine fishing nets which would allow them to fish when the sea might otherwise be too rough. Work has been underway to convert an old boat into one which can be used for this particular fishing method. Pat & Clive checked on progress on their recent visit and took the photos below. On Sunday 4 October the boat is being blessed as is the local custom before going out on its maiden trip. The plan is that the village will work as a co-operative and this form of fishing will provide employment and income for 40 men for the long term and help the fishermen support their families.



Band Aid


Pat & Clive have just returned to the UK from Sri Lanka. Whilst there, one of the things they kindly agreed to do for us was take pictures of the new instruments which have been provided to the Village School in memory of Don's late brother Declan, himself a talented musician. The school has only had the instruments since the start of term and as you can hear from the video clip, have need plenty more practice:-) but we know that having a band is incredibly important to the status of a school.


Monday, 28 September 2009

5th Anniversary Movie

As the 5th anniversary of the 2004 Boxing Day tsunami approaches, this short film remembers why FODAD was created and celebrates the valuable assistance that we're still providing 5 years on, thanks to the Friends of Della and Don.

Sunday, 27 September 2009

Musical Youth

In their final visit, Pat & Clive returned to St Mary's village school where they were treated to a performance by the school band using new instruments which were bought in memory of Don's late brother Declan.

They've told us that they took loads of photo and video clips during their visit so as soon as they're back in the UK, we'll be able to post some on here. Can't wait!

Wednesday, 23 September 2009

Update from Sri Lanka

Pat and Clive who are friends of Steve and Gav are currently on holiday in Sri Lanka. When they heard about the work that FODAD was doing closeby, they offered to help in anyway they could whilst they were out there.

The answer is always "Yes" and today they visited the Nursery School to hand out new shoes for all the under 5s. They were welcomed with garlands and smiles and treated to a performance of song and dance. Inevitably, they were captivated by the kids' smiles...

Later, they went to the Village School to check on the progress of Imesha, the girl we met who tragically lost her mother back in June. They were able to handover 600 rupees (thats just $6 or £3.50) on FODAD's behalf to pay for her continuing monthly tuition fees.

Then it was on to the beach where they saw the new boat being prepared for the new nets that FODAD has provided to establish the fishing cooperative. Later, Pat and Clive were treated to lunch, Sri Lankan style, at Udaya's.

They're now looking forward to their third visit to the village on Friday to hopefully see a performance by some pupils at the Village School using the instruments provided in memory of Don's late brother, Declan.

We'll have lots of pictures to post when they return to the UK next week.

For people to give up precious down-time whilst on holiday is appreciated enormously and just shows how generous friends of the Friends of Della and Don are! Our thanks to them both x

Turn Trash into Cash and Help FODAD


Now there's a way to safely recycle those old ink-jet cartridges or mobile phones and at the same time turn them into cash which can help FODAD continue to do what we've been doing for almost 5 years.

It's really easy to do and costs nothing. Just visit
http://www.eachonecounts.co.uk/page/charity/93 and register online. Check that the cartridge or phone has a value and then order some bags. These are sent out within 24 hours and can be returned to the FREEPOST address at any time. Then log in and enter the unique barcode on each bag. We receive £1 for each cartridge plus Gift Aid so please don't forget to tick the box.

I've just ordered 10 bags to send of the 20 or so we have lying around. That's worth over £25 to FODAD from something which we'd normally just toss away.

And if you ordered some bags, why not take them into work or your school or give them to friends and family to start collecting. Every little helps, as a rather large supermarket chain likes to remind us!
If you have any queries, let me know.

Wednesday, 16 September 2009

We're on JustGiving!



The Friends of Della and Don can now be found on JustGiving.com. So if you want to donate a one-off or even regular payment, you now can, safely and securely. And if you're a UK taxpayer, remember that Gift Aid can increase the value of your gift by 28%.
For the more adventurous, why not create a page for your walk, run, cycle or whatever and link it to FODAD? Or start your New Year Resolution early and lose weight or give up smoking. You could even shave your head, do a sponsored silence or hold a quiz night or cake sale!

Watch out for the Nichola's page who is running the NYC Marathon on 1st November on behalf of FODAD.

Sunday, 13 September 2009

New Shoes

On Friday, Della sent money to Sri Lanka to pay for new shoes for all the children at the Nursery School. The kids are aged from 3 -5 years and this will be the first time that FODAD has supplied new shoes for them and is a follow-on from our trip in July. Friends of FODAD, Pat & Clive are holidaying in Sri Lanka and have very kindly agreed to oversee the shoes being handed out as well as following up on some other issues. Hopefully, we'll get updates from them during the visit and share them here.

Thursday, 10 September 2009

Only 105 days to go until Christmas


Ok, it's back to work and school for most of us but never fear, Christmas isn't that far away... And those who are really organised and like to plan ahead might already be thinking about buying charity Christmas Cards to send to family and friends.

We'll soon be teaming up with charitycards.co.uk to offer high quality cards for all occasions, not just for Christmas, through our own-branded online shop. It costs us nothing but if anyone chooses to buy cards through the site, FODAD will receive a minimum of 7.5% from each order and as much as 15%.

So if you're already thinking about it, perhaps hold-off until we get our store up and running. That way, you could make a small donation on something which many of us have to buy anyway.

Keep an eye out for the link in the next few weeks.

Sunday, 23 August 2009

Experimental video

..Teach a man to fish...

“Buy a man a fish and he’ll eat for a day; teach a man to fish and he’ll eat for a lifetime.” Confucius

When we arrived in Mount Lavinia at the end of June 2009, the fishermen in our village had only been able to launch their boat once in the previous 3 weeks. The monsoon which will last until November makes the sea far too dangerous for them to take the boat out very frequently and when they do, they fish with rods and lines.

No-one can change nature but we want to be sure that they can maximize their fishing options when the sea is calm and make enough money to carry them through the monsoon season. We are helping them introduce seine fishing to their village.

The technique requires around 40 people to haul in the nets and is normally operated by a co-operative of villagers but a large percentage of the profits from the haul going to the net owner.



Now, thanks to a generous individual donation, the Friends of Della and Don is the joint-owner of a net which will be used by the fishermen of the village. This opportunity will provide employment to around 40 villagers who now have a vested interest in making it work. In addition, with a part-share of the nets, we’re able to re-invest directly back into projects to help the village.

The Friends of Della and Don want to do more than provide immediate relief and assistance and help provide the villagers with employment, a wage and a long term sustainable opportunity to create and share a better way of life.

If you would like to help us continue to fund sustainable projects, you can donate via the website using PayPal.


Thank you.

Saturday, 15 August 2009

Sri Lankan Food

One of the things that it's impossible not to enjoy whilst in Sri Lanka is the cuisine. The famous chef, Rick Stein, visited Sri Lanka and cooked up a mouth-watering dish in his latest BBC TV series. You can see him cooking on the beach at the famous Mount Lavinia Hotel which was where the FODAD story began and neighbours the fishing village at Ratmalana. Take a look at this episode on the BBC iPlayer...

Wednesday, 22 July 2009

Wednesday 22nd July

We might be back but the work carries on. Saul (Della's brother) and his family are staying until the middle of August and are busy following up lots of issues. Since the burglary, it emerged that the Village School had no water supply because of a leaky tank, no money to fix it and no expectation of the government doing anything about it. So for less than a tenner, he arranged for it to be fixed in under a day.

Also, Saul has given a number of students cameras to take home and take photos of things of interest to them and then using the developed pictures to talk to them about their lives and hopes. Hopefully we'll be able to link to them from the website some time in the future.

Elsewhere, he has been working hard with Udaya and the school principal to open up the Village Library to the kids during school time.

Sunday, 19 July 2009

Time to Reflect

We've been back a few days now and it's given us time to think about all that we achieved but also the stuff we weren't able to do. Luckily, Saul is still in Sri Lanka for another few weeks and is actively following up ideas and issues.

In the meantime, we've managed to review some of the photos (over 1,000 of them) and video footage (nearly 2 hours).

Below are our top10 video clips from the 18 days away:

The Lime & Spoon Race

The Friends of Della & Don Boat gets Launched

The Sack Race at Sports Day

Balloon Dancing #1

Balloon Dancing #2

Balloon Blowing Contest

Beach Cricket at the Village

The Village

The Orphans' Day Out

The Orphans' Marching Band


Wednesday, 15 July 2009

Wednesday 15 July

A sad day...it’s our last in Sri Lanka and didn’t get off to a great start as we heard from Udaya that the Village school had been broken into overnight. Money that the children had collected for their day-trip today was stolen along with the only computer base unit. There is no hope of recovering the items nor making any arrests.

So, the Trustees (Della, Steve & Saul) met to discuss the work achieved over the last 16 days and priorities for the next 3 weeks whilst Saul remains...

And after saying our goodbyes, it's up at 0400 to start the journey back to the UK.

We hope you've enjoyed reading what we've been up to; there will be loads more pics and videos on the website at www.friendsofdellaanddon.com where you can also find out how to help :-)

Tuesday 16 July

Today’s main event was the School Sports & Games Day but even before that started, there was a trip back to the Clinic which FODAD supports. A number of the children which are directly receiving benefit from your support had come and Della, Don and Saul had the opportunity chat to them. Again, the visit highlighted jst how desperate some families are and not necessarily through any problems of their own making. One family we help are just really, really poor; the father, who is a labourer/brick layer, earns just 300 Rupees a day when he can find work – that’s just £1.60 or about $2.80. Consider my fish and chip meal last night cost 900 rupees and you can sense how much of struggle it can be for many families. Even some of the hotel management where we are staying earn just £60 a month so it’s easy to see how relatively small amounts can make a serious difference.

Back at the Village School, we arrived to set things up and were heartened to hear that attendance today was the highest it has been in the 2 weeks we’ve been here – 120 pupils. With very few resources, we were ready to go with 8 teams of 15 children, each managed by one of us. Della’s Black Horses were a very enthusiastic bunch with a mean, determination to win whilst unsurprisingly perhaps, Don’s team were the loudest and as it later emerged from video evidence, had a tendency to interpret the rules to suit them!!!

The first event was the 3-legged race and as we started, in true English summer sports day style, the heavens opened! This did not dampen sprits and it was a bizarre to see 16 kids of all sizes charge off the starting line to rapturous cheers and shouts from their team mates.

Next was the Sri lankan version of the egg and spoon race. This differs from the traditional game as we know it... the egg is replaced by a lime but the spoon is clenched in the mouth. Some of the teams took the speed approach but it was clear, a more cautious approach worked best.

The third event was a sack race in which Saul and Steve led off for their respective teams. The sacks came to

their knees whilst some of the smaller team members were almost engulfed with just their heads peeking out of the top. At the end of the this event, Della’s team were streaking ahead closely followed by Gav’s Red Bulls.

As the heat and humidty grew, the next event was pass the tennis ball under the chin. Classic comedy moments all round as 10 year olds struggled to reach down to receive the ball from children of 5 and girls reluctantly having to get close to boys!

The penultimate event was a Sri Lankan favourite, apparently. Five of the smallest members from each team had a balloon and had to blow it up until it exploded... It soon became clear that with balloons reaching 3 times the size of the kids’ faces, some assistance might be needed so the scorers ball point pen proved useful in putting the smaller kids and onlookers out of their agony. A most bizarre game but actually, really funny.

With just three points separating four teams, there was all to play for on the final event – again another Sri Lankan favourite – dancing with balloons. Ably demonstrated by Della and Don, couples simply had to dance together but keep the balloon off the ground. So, we were faced with around 20 couples dancing to some ring-tones played through a PA system which had already been left open to the elements; numbers were whittled down quite quickly until we got to a hard-core group of balloon-dancing pros who it seemed were prepared to dance all day.

Eventually, the scores were collated and, thanks to their success at ballon dancing, the WHite Bears came from behind and stole the title from Della’s Black Horses. And Don’s team...well, they didn’t rack up a single win despite his manipulation of the rules.

The event ended with Della handing our prizes for the winners and then a handing oit soft toys, books shoes and clothes to all the kids from the donations from New York and the UK. The joy on the face of the girl who recently lost her mother when she received as special teddy bear will live with me forever.

After a brief pause, we piled up about 5 boxes into a tuk-tuk and headed for the Fishing Village.

As we arrived an expectant crowed was beginning to gather but we’re managing to keep a respectful distance. It didn’t last long though as the crowd surged forward the moment the first box was opened. Clothes, books, shoes, flip-flops and bed linen were all handed out as fairly as we could but the feeling of desperation was overwhelming. At least almost everyone got at least something.

Finally, we saw the fishing boat which Della and Don bought immediately after the Tsunami to help the villagers’ livelihoods being launched for only the second time whilst we’ve been here.

Until now, the monsoon conditions have made it to rough to fish and consequentially, the fisherman haven’t been able to earn anything for their families for about 3 weeks. We learnt later that that day’s haul netted them 1000 Rupees.

Monday, 13 July 2009

Monday 13 July

Firstly, apologies if the updates become considerably shorter over the next few days because there is so much to do in the 3 days we have left on the island. Today was very much like starting the new working week with an early start and action-packed agenda. First stop was to drop off soft toys, games and books for the Nursery school for the under-5s, many of which were part of the recent shipment. These are some of the cutest kids you ever saw and their delight at each receiving a cuddly toy was amazing. We spent time playing with them and joining in their songs which was great fun. Before leaving, the teachers pointed out that some of the kids didn’t have any shoes so we agreed we’d like to buy the 40 or so children new ones in September. This would be the first time that we will have provided them with footwear and estimate the cost will be around $350 or £200.

Next stop was the Village School where we discussed preparations for tomorrow’s sports and games day.

We also reported to the Principal the fact that we had already ordered some musical instruments for the school band and she was so delighted, she could hardly contain herself!

Then, because there is so much to do, we split up. Gav headed off into town with Udaya to get all the things needed for the event including food and drink for 150 children as well as 8 badminton racquets for the girls to play with at break. Meanwhile, Steve continued his English lessons assisted by Della with a very attentive bunch of students whose confidence has already improved dramatically. And outside, Saul and Caroline continued to teach English through interactive games, ably assisted by Jacob.

Before leaving, we were introduced to a child of 6 and her father. Sadly, the mother died 4 weeks ago in a traffic accident and both still seemed dazed by the experience. With Udaya translating, we learned that after school finished at 1330, the father had to pick her up and take her back to his workplace at a brick-making factory until he finished at around 1800. Unfortunately there is no real after-school care to speak of. We desperately wanted to help and so Udaya suggested that the girl could attend after school tutoring 3 days a week with his daughter and niece and stay at his house with them on the other 2 days. The cost of the tutoring a month...? Just 400 Rupees or £2.20, that’s about $3.50 USD. Such a small amount but it will provide her with a better education, friends and allow the father to work. We also agreed to meet the costs of her uniforms, shoes and books.

Immediately after, it was back to the hotel to tackle all of the items that recently arrived as well as the ones we brought out with us which had been donated by friends. We made up prize bags, separated items for men, women and children, filled two boxes full of educational books and pens and set aside some items for the clinic. The current plan is to hand out as much as we can after the sports event at the School and then to the villagers. But as we’ve found many times in Sri Lanka, things always take twice as long to do and rarely go according to plan!